Thoughts From the Home School Conference

We had a wonderful weekend at the NICHE Home School Conference! As always, the Lord sent just the things we needed to hear to encourage and motivate us.

Here’s just a small sampling:

  • Todd Wilson: Be real. Show the chinks in your armor and be understanding when others do the same. There is no “perfect home school family”, every one has their share of trouble.
  • Zan Tyler: Kids have to talk. Conversation builds tissues in the brains. My home should be bursting with language.
  • Todd Wilson: If a plant loses some leaves, it can still grow, but if the stem of a plant is broken, the plant will die. My marriage is the stem. I need to cultivate it and be careful with it. Almost everything else (curriculum, money, houses, even home schooling) are leaves, there are just not that important.
  • Zan Tyler: “Fold them the way they’re bent”. I need to adapt the training of my children to the way that God created them, their natural abilities and interests.
  • Sarah Mally: Five goals for our home school: 1. Godliness 2. Wisdom 3. Knowledge 4. Skills 5. Ministry. Spiritual goals always come first!
  • Sonya Shafer: Habits take up 1/3 of education. “The mother who takes pains to endow her children with good habits secures for herself smooth and easy days; while she who lets habits take care of themselves has a weary life of endless friction with the children.” ~Charlotte Mason
  • Jan Bloom: Great books help your children to practice emotions. They should nourish the mind and the hearts. They should broaden our understanding and develop our imagination.

It was just the weekend that both my husband and I needed!

Saving Money on Home School Curriculum

After spending a wonderful weekend at the annual home school conference, I was once again amazed at how many curriculum choices we have to choose from.

When I was first involved in home schooling, as a recent college graduate in the late 1980’s in the height of the home school battle, the parents I worked with had just two choices, A Beka or Bob Jones. Now there were two gyms full of vendors and  hallways full of the overflow. There are catalogs 2 inches thick full of curriculum choices.

How do you choose? You could easily spend thousands (I know people who do every year), but you don’t have too.  We spend very little on home school materials and I still think our children are getting an excellent education.

Want to know my secrets?

1. Use non-consumable books. That means no workbooks that one child writes in and then you thrown them away. Whenever possible we buy hard back books for the first child that each child down the line will also use. For example, we just purchased Apologia Chemistry for $55. Sounds expensive doesn’t it? But it’s a hard cover book that all 5 of my children will use. That brings its cost down to just $11 per child for an excellent curriculum. Then when we’re done with it, I can resell it. Or look at Spelling Power. We purchased the book for about $50 several years ago. It starts about third grade and continues until your child has completed every level (usually about 10th grade.) I have five children who will use that one book for about 8 years each, which would be 40 years total. That brings the cost of that one book down to slightly over a dollar a year for each child.

2. Use literature. I’m a big fan of the literature approach to education. I’ve read a lot about Charlotte Mason and practice many of her ideas. When ever possible I’ll use a book rather than a text book. Library books are free! We also love book sales, garage sales and thrift stores.

3. Buy used. Before shelling out the big bucks for brand new books, check out eBay, Amazon, or the Curriculum Market at Home School Legal Defense (http://market.hslda.org).

4. Ask yourself if you need it. So much of the curriculum and extras we buy never even get used. Give yourself three good reasons why you need it before you buy.

5. Remember that an expensive curriculum doesn’t guarantee an excellent education. Many of the pioneer children had just the McGuffy Readers, the Bible and a few other books. The most important part of your child’s education is teaching them to love to learn.